Barbara E. Sanderson: Ten Ways To Create Peace

These actions can be taken by anyone. We can apply them to ourselves, and to our families, neighbors, friends, co-workers, and to world leaders.

Silence our inner self-critics, because external violence begins with self-loathing. Stay curious. Peace begins inside each of us.
Don't give in to fear, because acting on it creates dangerous situations. Let challenging circumstances be a call to our creativity.
Don't confuse people with their unproductive behavior, because it makes it more difficult for them to be their best selves. Hold them accountable and keep reaching for the person under the behavior.
Give up trying to win, because it trashes relationships and organizations. Value connectedness more than being right.
Resist hating others, because hatred contributes to the collective consciousness that creates violence. Try praying for people who anger you.
Be direct rather than talking behind people's backs, because it's the only way to resolve conflicts. Welcome difficult conversations.
Don't act on unchecked assumptions, because they are usually inaccurate and will lead to unnecessary conflict. Ask for the information you are missing.
Recognize the impact of your thoughts and actions, because both war and peace are a collection of what we think and do. Realizing the power of our impact is a good antidote for feelings of helplessness and hopelessness.
Let others know what is important to you, because you have an important piece of the world puzzle that no one else has. Speak from your heart and your character.
As Gandhi said, “Be the change you want.” We are the ones who can create peace.

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